The Man is Troubling Me

It has been almost 3 weeks since my man visited me. Since then we have only spoken 2 times. If he were an American guy, I would follow the latest rule of thumb and chalk it up to "he's just not that into you." But he's a Euro-guy, and as much all men have some basic, shall we say.... traits, I don't know if he can necessarily be categorized into "not into you" based on the same forms or the frequency of communication. Now, he's got some claims (of course he misses me!) and he's got some things to blame (the time difference is getting in the way! [er, right, after a year and a half of long distance, all of the sudden the time difference is getting in the way?] I'm SO busy with work!), but I'm still very troubled by all of this. Actually, I was troubled. Last week. Then I explained to him for a half hour what I need from him for me to feel important in his life. I even gave him an out. Yet nothing changed. So now, I am WAY. PAST. TROUBLED. I'm over it.