We all know men can be insenstive and that women are very often overly sensitive. This is why we have difficulty communicating. Even with random strangers.
So here's another tip for men: If you unexpectedly encounter a woman you've never met (i.e., due to answering an "for sale" ad on Craigslist.org), and you misunderstood her initial e-mail instructions and you are frustrated things aren't going as you expected, don't, I repeat DON'T say this: "No wonder you're not married!" You should never say this to a woman, especially to a woman who is over 30 (even though she doesn't look like it, er, maybe I did in that light...) who is more than likely already beating herself up about being over 30 and not being married!
First of all, it won't help win her over to your side (or give you the entertainment center you thought you were buying because you live in la-la land and don't read). Second of all, what men need to realize is that their odd insensicle outbursts, that come into their head and then out of the mouth and then disappear, stay with women much longer.
Good rule of thumb here: if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.
1.31.2006
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